Divorce mediation services

Separation is difficult.
It doesn't have to be destructive.

Mediation, divorce coaching and structured support designed to reduce conflict, protect children and help everyone reach a fair, workable outcome.
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Voluntary process. No pressure. No legal advice.
How this works

Mediation & Family Dispute Resolution

Mediation, also known as Family Dispute Resolution (FDR), is a process to help separating couples reach agreements about parenting and property without going to court.
The focus is not on taking sides, but rather fascilitating calm, constructive conversations to find solutions that work for everyone.
    A voluntary, no-pressure process
    Guided by a qualified, independent practitioner
    Focused on practical outcomes and long-term stability
    Designed to reduce conflict and improve communication
For many people, mediation provides a clearer, more manageable way forward.

When everything feels uncertain,
it's hard to know what to do next.

Separation often brings a mix of pressure, uncertainty, and emotional strain. Especially when children are involved. Even simple decisions can feel difficult. Conversations can become reactive. And the fear of making the wrong choice can make it harder to move forward at all.

Unclear decisions

Parenting, finances and next steps can quickly become difficult when both parties have different views.

Emotional overwhelm

It's common to feel unsure, reactive and to be unable to think clearly about what comes next.

Decisions under pressure

Important choices about your future shouldn't be made in conflict, confusion or urgency.
Bonnie combines formal mediation training with counselling-based experience, allowing her to support both the practical and emotional aspects of separation.

Calm, structured guidance
when you need it most.

Smoother Separations is led by Bonnie Douglas, a qualified Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner and Certified Parenting Coordinator.

Bonnie works with individuals and families navigating separation, providing a calm, structured process that helps reduce overwhelm, support clear thinking, and guide people toward practical, workable outcomes.

Her role is not to take sides or make decisions for you. It is to hold a clear, respectful process where both people can be heard, explore options, and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.

  • Registered Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner
  • AMDRAS Accredited Mediator
  • Certified Parenting Coordinator
  • Graduate Diplomas in Counselling and Family Dispute Resolution
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Meet Bonnie

A mediator focused on outcomes that work beyond the room.

Bonnie Douglas is an experienced family mediator, registered Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP), parenting coordinator and divorce coach based on the Mornington Peninsula.

Through her practice, Smoother Separations, Bonnie supports individuals and families to navigate separation with clarity, dignity and less conflict – particularly where children are involved.

Her approach is calm, structured and child-focused, drawing on her background in counselling, family dispute resolution and her own lived experience of high-conflict separation. Bonnie works primarily online to support psychological safety and reduce pressure for clients, while offering in-person appointments on the Mornington Peninsula by request.

Guided by the belief that “separation should not be a life sentence,” Bonnie helps parents understand conflict patterns, consider different perspectives, and make more workable decisions for themselves and their children.